Do you love your wife? I know you will say YES. But that is not the question. The real question is: does your wife feel loved? Think about it and keep the answer aside…

When a woman feels loved, she cannot hide it. The signs appear all over her. She makes it clear in her speech and in her actions. She blushes when her man is mentioned. She hardly completes a conversation without mentioning him. She develops goosebumps when she sees or holds him. She loves him more than she loves anyone else. She rushes to talk to him whenever she needs to talk. She feels totally safe around him.

When a woman feels loved, her housework become hobbies and her responsibilities become reflexes. She obeys her husband wholeheartedly. She treats him like a king without feeling like a servant. She behaves like a queen without any sign of arrogance. She defends his honour and protects his property. She guards him jealously. She stays with him, no matter what. She supports him when he is rising and encourages him when he falls.

Dear men, when you love your woman, make sure she feels it. Say it loud and clear. Show it openly. Love the people who matter to her. Love her aspirations and dreams. Love the things she’s passionate about. If there is anything you don’t love about her, tell her and help her change. Marriage is meant to be laden with love and mercy. When a woman feels loved, she can move mountains just for you.

“And of His signs is that He created for you from yourselves mates that you may find tranquillity in them; and He placed between you affection and mercy. Indeed in that are signs for a people who give thought”. (Qur’an chapter 30 verse 21)




  1. Fatima Owodunni 28/01/2020 / 3:12 pm

    Jazakh Allah khair, Darlyn Doctor. Well said. May the Creator continue to bless our homes and grant us the best in matrimony. You’re highly appreciated always. Much love.

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